Blogspot5: Relationship

Relationships the condition or fact of being related; connection or association. Love is the most profound emotion known to human beings. There's many relationship, it can be a mother-daughter, friends, girlfriend-boyfriends and many more. When you are in a relationship it need to know the word trust, love, acceptance and understanding. If you don't have that characteristic, I think your relationship will not work. Every relationships needs trust. It is your foundation to build your relation or connection to each other. Love, that will accept each other difference. Love is to pleasure one person. Acceptance, no matter how is she or how poor is she, you don't look the physical nor the kindness of person. Lastly, understanding is willingness to give your mind in what person is. Relationship is so hard to build but if you don't have a willingness to it, it will easily bring down your relationship.

I read an article entitled "Teens and Parents: A Battle of the Wills" by Raychelle Cassada Lohmann. In this article discussed how parents raise a teen daughter or son and how people survive the teen stage. Being a parent is not easy. Parent can share thoughts, comments, even support in her child. Don't forget to be responsible enough to teach the children for what is the best for them. Because parent is the best teacher for their child. Parent must be learn how to communicate with their children because sometimes they have a problem so parent can help to have a solution to it. Teen life is the best and fun part of our lives.  Some are rebellious but some are quiet enough to live standard. Teenager want to be independent enough to decide and choice without their parent.  Some have a lot of pressure from their friends. But it doesn't mean that you don't care anymore for you parents. Have time yo tour parents so you have a good relationship with them. Parents understand the toughest life of a teenager. Teenage life is a challenge to become and to be ready for the next chapter of life.


According to Raychelle Cassada Lohman "What is interesting about this age is that one day your teen may be telling you that you don't know what you're talking about and the next day your teen may be seeking out your advice. " Some teen is rebellious to their parent because sometime they didn't get that they want to have. Sometimes teen is not listening to their parent because they thought they are right than their parent. Don't underestimate the power of a parent. Mother knows best. Constantly they get mad at you because they always want what the best for their child. Time flies so fast. Don't let your parent out of your life, sooner or later you will need them. Always thank to your parent that they always there for you no matter what happen. Love them, respect them and always take care of them.


I found an article entitled "The girlfriend Instinct" by Debba Haupert. It's all about her girl friend, about a female friendship. In her story, she have a two girlfriends that have a cancer but they are survivor. She's so sorrowful what happened to her 2 two girlfriends. So she came to think why is girlfriends is so important. As women, we need to know what being girlfriend means. Once in a while we need to take a rest and think some friends. Sometime we miss opportunities to be involved in the world, to learn a new things and appreciate people around us. So the diagnoses of her two girlfriends, she recognize the true friendship and fill the time and memories together.

According to Debba Haupert "Too often it takes an illness or loss to hit us with reality, and appreciation of friendship." Some people don't recognize the true meaning of friendship. Learn how to appreciate friendship. Life is better together with your friends. Even though your personalities is completely difference from one another you'll will learn how to accept it. 



Trust, Love, Acceptance and Understanding. Isn't easy to have a relation in other people.  But it's easy to associate with it.I'm blessed to build my relationship with my friends, brother, parents, teacher and some other people. We need a time to appreciate them and treasure the moment with them. Life is to short. Love people around you so that you will be happier and healthier enough to face everyday with your precious people in your life.